Saturday, November 3, 2012

What do I Say? Child Sponsorship Letter Writing "Clinic"


Welcome to the recap of our child  sponsorship letter writing event!  The bulk of this recap is devoted to all the ideas you and others are doing to let your sponsored child(ren) and his/her family know they are special…in your eyes and in God’s! 

Our trip to Matete, Kenya taught us one important lesson.  Our presence (not our presents) matters most.  Our letters represent our physical presence to our sponsored kids and their families.   That’s why it’s less important what we say and more important what we do.  Even if all we say is Happy Easter or Merry Christmas in big block letters, the very fact that they got mail (remember how exciting that was as a kid?) let’s them know that someone cares….that they are special! 


Exhibit 1 contains basic instructions for letter writing from World Vision.  It’s always good to re-read the basic do’s and dont’s.  However, that said, let’s get on with our/your letter writing tips!

My.WorldVision.org
Thanks to Vivian, WOV Austin’s child sponsorship chair, we learned about creating a World Vision account on www.worldvision.org and then creating a My World Vision account my.worldvision.org What does a My World Vision account get you?  You can:
  1. E-mail letters to your child(ren)
  2. Send a copy of the e-mail to your own e-mail account in order to save a copy of what your wrote
  3. Learn about your child’s ADP (WV lingo for the area where you child lives, e.g. Matete, Kenya)
  4. Make a financial donation to your child that is shared with his/her family but no one else
  5. Find letter templates to help you get started, although we included World Vision’s letter templates in Exhibit 2 for your convenience! 

Letter Writing Tips
  1. At the very least, use World Vision’s supplied greeting cards…don’t let the optional $5 donation deter you.  Contribute the $5 every other time or not at all…just don’t let it be a stumbling block to bringing joy to your sponsored child!  Some just use these WV supplied cards to communicate, while others (like Gail & Gayle!) include these colorful and educational cards with their own letters.
  2. Ask for their family members’ names so you can pray for them by name
  3. Share with them about your job, what you do and the schooling your rec’d to encourage them to pursue an education (see Cathy’s letter sample in Exhibit 4)
  4. Praise them for their drawings, attending school, helping out at home, being a good friend/brother/sister, etc
  5. Set up a binder and photo album to document your communication so you know how to follow up.  Sometimes you need to ask a question several times via letters before it gets answered.  Gail B and Sherry T brought theirs as examples. 
  6. Share specific prayer requests for how they can pray for you (more rain, healing for a broken bone, back injury, arthritis, children, your church/ministry, etc)
  7. Per the Matete ADP staff, hand written letters are actually better than e-mails for younger children.  To a 2-5 yr old, hand written letters look more real.  HOWEVER, everyone agrees that an e-mail is better than no letter at all!!  So do whatever you need to do, including...
  8. Ask a friend for help writing a letter if you have total writer's block.  Pray before you start for God's Holy Spirit to speak for you.   
  Gift Ideas
  1. Photos of your family members, garden/plants, pets, sports.  It’s very meaningful to put a face to your name.  The best rule of thumb…if you’d send it to the Pope, it’s ok to send to your sponsored child!
  2. Grand/kids’ drawings
  3. Coloring pages (Dollar General has Bible coloring books for a $1 -- tear out and send a few pages at a time; soccer coloring pages would be popular with the boys if you can get past the annoying pop-up ads on this safe, albeit commercialized, site!)
  4. Postcards of the place you live
  5. Pictures of things they don’t usually see as educational tools for their families & schools.  Jill S and Fiona M mentioned they use clipart to describe what they talk about in their letters (see Exhibits 1a-1b for an example from Fiona)
  6. Special gift – call the WOV Helpdesk @ 1-877-968-4968 to send a special financial gift to the family (minimum $100 up to $1000.  Used to purchase items for both your child (e.g. clothing) and the family (e.g. goat or cow that provides milk for the whole family).  Gifts over $200 will be shared with the community.  For more details, visit myworldvision.org or call World Vision at 1-888-511-6548.
  7. Per Gail B, for younger/smaller sponsored kids, you can often fit a pair of flip flops in a  6x9 envelop.  Ask the community volunteer to trace the feet of the child and send the tracing to you with the return letter.
  8. Streetwise World Map” - laminated, 4 x 8.5 inches folded, $4-6.95 plus shipping/tax.  Use a sharpie to note Austin and Matete on the map like Bruce E and The Hasse’s.  [To minimize shipping fees on some of these online items, pool resources with your small group or Sunday School class to buy in bulk.]
9.       Friendship bracelets (one of the rules is no jewelry, but these are fine!)  Consider buying Fair Trade bracelets at the TenThousand Villages Store in Austin or online.
10.   School supplies: pencils, small colored pencils & pencil sharper,  small notepad (no crayons b/c they will melt)
11.   Anything soccer themed for boys
12.   Drawstring backpacks are easily foldable and Fiona said (barely) fit into a padded 6x9 envelope.  Here is an example at Target but you can find them at Academy & Walmart too:  UT drawstring backpackTexas and Bethany logo’d items are good ways to tie our communities together!
13.   Glow in the dark crosses like this one.
14.   Small “Happy Meal” books from Chick-fil-a or Sonic (Chick-fil-a has alternative prizes for kids 3 and under…ask for them if they are a better fit for the 6x9 envelope).  You don’t need to be or have a kid to order the kids meal!!  Chick-fil-a books should always be appropriate just maybe too big to send.  Sonic has some really good Scholastic learning books about nature or math/reading skills, but their recent World Book of Guiness Records series, which focused on real pictures of glamorous cars/trucks/food/homes (e.g. Hummer limo), might not be a good idea!
15.   Head scarf/bandana whether you buy one or knit one like Terry S.  Terry also found a TX themed bandana to send!  Hair bows and clips are often not functional because of closely cropped hair but would be proudly clipped to dresses & school bags. 
16.   Clothing:  collared shirt for church, socks or gloves, leggings (lows are in the 50’s.  A lot of kids wear flip flops but socks would keep them warm at night!), Texas logo’d shirts or cotton shorts.   Take a 6x9 envelope with you to test out whether you can stuff/roll the item.  The bubble padded envelopes would be stronger & necessary in this case.
17.   Wash cloths would always be put to good use and would be greatly appreciated by the moms, find some with a fun print and your sponsored child will gladly call it his/her own!
18.   World Visions’ gift suggestions can be found on their Facebook site or once you've created a my.worldvision.org account.

THANK YOU for being a conduit of God’s love to these children and families! If you find a great item, please let us know by e-mailing wovaustin@gmail.com  or posting a comment below so we can share it with others!

Exhibit 1
Letter Writing Instructions from My.WorldVision.org
1. On the front of your envelope, write World Vision's national country office address. This address can be found on the left side of this page.


2. Write your name and return address on the back flap of your envelope. On the lower portion of the back, write your sponsored child's name and ID number. (Please do not write the child's name and ID number on the front of the envelope.)



3. On your letter, write the child's name and ID number at the top of the page. Your child will write back via their local World Vision office; to avoid confusion and to protect your identity, please do not write your address on your letter.

Please do not enclose your monthly sponsorship gift or any cash with your correspondence. In some countries it is actually against the law to possess American money. If you would like to send a financial gift, please call 1-800-678-2168.


Helpful Hint: Photos of you and your family will be especially treasured.

Hearing back from your sponsored child
The number of letters you receive from your sponsored child depends partly on the number of letters you send.
Your sponsored child will respond to your letters; however, it’s common for a reply to take up to three to four months. Remote locations and inadequate postal services can result in slower communication.
In most cases, a staff member will need to translate the letter from the local language.
Letter writing is a new experience for any child, and many children come from oral traditions. Feel free to write again, even if you’ve yet to receive a reply!




                                                                              
Exhibit 2

My.WorldVision.org Sample Letters

Introduce Your Family Sample Letter
Dear Nilson,
Thank you so much for the letter you sent me! I was excited to get your letter and hear about your life. Our family is very excited to be sponsoring you. You were born on the same day as my daughter, Grace. I also have a son, Tim, who is 6 years old, and another daughter, Sarah, who is 2 years old. I am a first grade teacher, and my husband works on airplanes. Can you tell us a little bit about your family?
Tim likes to play soccer and baseball, and Grace plays soccer and softball. This summer they both took swimming lessons, and are now pretty good. What type of sports do you play?
Our family is very involved with our church. We go to church every Sunday, and we have several friends from our church who sponsor other children in your community.
We will send you some pictures of our family soon, but wanted to get a letter off to you as soon as we could.
Sincerely,

The Nichols Family, Mary, Tom, Grace, Tim and Sarah

Introduce Yourself Sample Letter
Dear Sokhin,

My name is Rachel and I am 21 years old. I am from the United States and grew up with my Mother, Father and younger brother. My brother is 15 years old and plays soccer (I think you call that football) at the local High School. We have two dogs, named Maggie and Hershey and I love animals! I am curious to hear more about your family.

I go to school in Seattle, Washington and am studying History. I live with my two friends, Stacey and Kinsey. Summer is almost over and I’m excited for school to start again. I only have 3 years left and then I want to go home and be a history teacher. What did you do this summer? When does your school start? What are your favorite subjects?
I hope all is well and that I hear from you soon!
With Love,

Rachel

Learn About Their Culture Sample Letter
Dear Komal,
Thank you for your letter! It was so wonderful to hear from you and learn more about your life.
What is your favorite holiday? Is there a special way that you celebrate that holiday? My favorite holiday is Christmas. On the evening before Christmas, my family goes to church where we light candles and sing songs. It looks and sounds very beautiful inside the church. Outside, there is usually a lot of snow. The children like to throw snowballs at each other.
Do you like music? I really enjoy listening to people sing and play instruments. Do you like to sing?
I hope to hear from you soon!
With much love,

Meg

Thank you For Your Letter Sample Letter
Dear Nyasha,
I was delighted to get your recent letter, and I am very happy to hear your family is well! You’re looking so grown up in your photograph, too! Thank you for taking time to draw that lovely picture for me; you’re a very good artist!
How is school going? Do you like your teachers? Do you still go to art class twice a week? Math is one of my favorite subjects too! I also really like to play games with my family. My son is your age and my daughter is 10 years old. They both love to read and hang out with their friends.
Say hello to your grandmother for me and have a wonderful time at your party!
Yours truly,

Christine


Exhibit 3a


Monday, July 18th, 2011
Austin, Texas

Dear Lucy:
My name is Fiona.  I am Carly (age 8) and Douglas (age 7)’s Mom.   I was born and raised in Scotland, but my husband, Neal (Carly & Douglas’s Dad) was born and raised in Louisiana, U.S.A  and we now live in Austin, Texas, U.S.A.
We are so excited that we can get to know and your family a little.   We have never been to Africa, but have seen some pictures of Kenya.  I got to see some photographs of Matete last week.  It looks so green!   Here in Texas it is the middle of the summer and all the grass is yellow and brown.   It has been over 100 degrees Fahrenheit most days in July.  
I have been growing a vegetable garden at our church and at home.  My vegetable garden at home has died.  But in the church garden we were able to grow some tomatoes, and lots of okra (a green vegetable common in the Southern states of America).
We all love music.  Douglas and I like to dance a lot.  Carly plays the piano and likes to sing.   We like being outdoors and watching wildlife.   A little family of skunks moved into our neighborhood this summer.  We also have rabbits in our yard, a family of tarantula spiders, garden (harmless) snakes and the occasional scorpion.   There are lots of bugs in Texas and some of them are big!   Douglas loves to rescue any that come into our house and take them outside.
Douglas loves to play soccer and to build things.   Carly is learning how to sew and she loves to read and write.  We all like to laugh a lot.

Sending you lots of love and prayers,
Fiona, Neal, Carly & Douglas


Exhibit 3b




Exhibit 4



5/12/12 via e-mail


Dear Linda & family,
Happy 9th birthday Linda!  We hope you and your family are well.  We are well now, although our youngest son broke his collarbone (the bone between his should and neck) while playing with his older brother.  Thankfully, it was not a complete break but just a crack.  The doctor said the bone would heal by itself in two weeks as long as he is careful.  He likes to climb, jump and wrestle with his brother so it has slowed him down a little but not all the way!

Chris is an engineer and his work goes well.  He has been with the same company since he finished school  17 years ago – it’s a blessing that he likes it so much and that the company is good to him!  I worked outside the home for 12 years after finishing school, but stopped in 2006 to raise Connor and Olivia and have more time to volunteer at church.  In 2007, we had James and Mary Cathryn so I’ve been very busy with home and church activities.  In 2010, God led me to the work of World Vision and now I spend much of my time telling others about World Vision,  the Matete ADP, and you!

If you have time, please tell us about your grandparents, sister and brother and if your family has any specific prayer requests. 

May God Bless your whole family,
Chris, Cathy & kids

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